The art of making love can only be born from love. Not through technique.

Technique springs from our love when we listen. Whenever we remember love, sharing ensues like the flower’s fragrance, and all creation responds to that vibration.

Now, for sexual love. Let’s peer into the subject… The captured attention: from a glance, a shoulder brush, a gentle touch. The sound of the lover’s voice… Suddenly the light is on in the room of our lives. The air is fresher and the environment brighter.

Interestingly everyone, all of a sudden, is in a better mood.

Love makes love sensually/sexually, carefully swelling into mutual orgasms then

the night of deep sleep begins; yet there’s a new experience of relationship; two people breathing as One. Upon awakening from such love and sex, the world has been remade for us, and opportunities simply ask us to participate. Days go by—walking on air…yet, what happens? We lose this magic. Let’s not lose it again.

This is the subject of love and sexual love. The remembrance and return to what we Are, no longer a secret, no longer alone. Rather, we are with all of life itself through our sacredly sexual union with our beloved. Welcome.

 

Piece One: FYI-First Love Yourself

 

Love and space go together—don’t you think? After all, if we do not have enough space and time in our lives, nothing works. It is easy to observe. The more nervous, erratic and frenetic we are, the more “bad” things happen in us and to us.

So let’s be sure to take it from the top. We need a healthy sense of spaciousness, and a healthy sense of timelessness. Both of these come to us with love. Think of cuddle time. Don’t we have to like each other for cuddle time to happen? “Like” is the building block of love. Remember how deeply and profoundly nourishing this is?

Spending tender slow hours looking into each others eyes, souls and bodies. Smelling the scents, tantalized with the sights.

The art of making love begins as soon as we are filled up—with relaxation, nourishment, clarity and, yes…best of all…Love.

 

So…reverse the search, find the time DE-stress… unwind…

 

Falling in Love

Drop everything else, let’s break ground right here underneath us—where you’re at—and grow an extensive root structure. We breathe symbiotically with earth and nature.

A sense of spaciousness and deep relaxation is reflected in the main teaching of Zen; The Heart Sutra. It’s all about a sense of spaciousness, precariously translated often as “nothingness”. In Taoism, the foundation of Qigong and Tai Chi.

For you and I, the word “relax” is just enough instruction. Practicing being just

who we are, more importantly than what we need to do today. Time is well spent when caring for ourselves, in making the time for sacred space in our lives, TLC… from “me to me”. All animals do it; how much more so is nature coaxing us to recharge our batteries. Like a grow light on a plant, or nurturing attention on a child—do you give that quality time to yourself—or do you believe it’s just not the right thing to do?

Tonight expect a good night’s sleep; plan for with a set of specific actions. Clean stomach is #1, then be sure that each aspect of mind and body have been engaged. Here we find the natural gift of deep, restorative sleep. Tomorrow, do this work with yourself in the morning. Let all else go for a time. In the same way you’d brush a champion horse or clean and maintain your car, get in there and do the upkeep. Little by little our soulgasmic feeling increases and life itself becomes wonderful. Prepare to Love.

 

Longer Breath Now

 

Imagine that the cells of your body have senses, and perceive your relationships therein.

Directly face everyone from your safe inner cellular place.

How quick can you catnap? The master’s skill is just like a catnap. Notice the master of any art. A great Olympian, speaker, singer etc… all enter into suspended animation just prior to delivery.

 

Take A Dip in The Flow

 

Within our very body-minds exists a chance at resourcefulness. Why focus on resources?

No, focus on resourcefulness then resources never run out. Sexually we have the chance to magnetize our cells by being truly turned on, in every sense of the word. This is ‘Tantra’, and the inner meaning of alchemy and meditation. Let’s practice…

1. Take some deeply preparing breaths…Ready? You know, like you’re preparing for something…Exhale all your air out and relax… Sigh it all the way out.
2. Take some really long, calming-down breaths…
3. Experience the gentle, natural pause, the bated breath of “breath-taking beauty” happens because our cells are nourished so greatly that breath and pulse can

relax profoundly.

Access granted, now that a moment of refreshment has occurred. Can you stand another? Come on, do it for the team! The human team! Access your inner resources and synchronize your systems by practicing the master’s skill; we are all masters.

Each person is an irreplaceable puzzle piece of the solution to all problems.

Whatever we’ve ignored relationally festers. Find the courage to face people and life. How? By clearing ourselves of all negative dynamics that are at play. Just for a time of restoration—past, present and future—we are freed, and our sexual root comes alive of its own accord.

Meditation doesn’t occur in one direct action. That’s the best and purest way, but more often, access happens in cycles. Relax…something comes up…pay attention to it…start again. In this way we can realize our inherent spaciousness and timelessness.

Why give so much time and energy to slowing down and inner tuning?

Because both sages and scientists say that this is the place where creative genius and healing comes from! Enough said.

You see, with ‘enough’ space and time…our cells can breathe, bringing us to our next exploration…

 

Piece Two: Cellular Sexuality

 

Increased hormonal replacement and cellular renewal = longevity.

Many studies have linked creative genius with a high libido. Our sexual health is vital to all life. Luckily, our sexuality is naturally cultivated through a few healthy choices here and there.

Our cells ever await our command to synchronize. Like children asking for attention, they wait and scheme for our attention. Shall we give it? By doing so a higher amount of cellular magnetization happens. This is clear science, not airy-fairy talk. For example, focusing on the right hand for a moment, we actually increase the amount of bio-magnetism flowing from there. We can also raise and lower skin temperature.

These are just the beginning of simple tricks to discover.

What most charges our cells? Well, it’s when we get “turned on”, in every sense of the phrase, of course.

Creative juices are just that. A superfine hormonal combination that floods our systems, washing, reviving. Even our mouth is lit up, like a delectable bite of food has entered our palate.

The reason sex sells is because we are biologically hardwired to pay attention to

sexiness. Our neurons come alive with any welcome sexual reference or scene, and feeling better just happens.

Somewhere along the journey of cellular awareness we all discover life from the inside out. By traveling inside ourselves into pure feeling, by the art of making love, a new lease is scripted, by healing wounds. And we are bond with each other in such intimacy. We turn to feeling, and thinking is doused by long silences and gentle moods. Like a journey of no return, we are whisked away into the safety and security of our lover’s arms and strengthened, to return the favor. From love act to love act, driving deeper inside of each other, into the infinite.

This is Nature’s way; it bathes our cells in healthy hormones. Our minds bathe in brain chemistry balancing. The power of love and sex combined is a universal panacea curing a host of maladies. Brain waves reflect super-coherence that heals us.

As we uncover cellular areas that are ailing, it’s natural to the lover’s fingertips to explore what we sense on the skin’s surface. We seek these places with tender touches, and kiss all wounds. The cells respond healthily.

Each cell has a north and south pole of magnetism. Some of these magnetic vibes around areas of wound and challenge are distorted. We discover/uncover areas that attempt separation, little areas of our body-mind that are caught in fear, shock, and won’t release. Our biology is our biography—through loving touches—the long cuddle, we read that biography, giving us a map on how to better honor ourselves and our beloved. This union is more than pleasure; it is life, and life more full through the act of sacred sexual practice.

Discovering our cellular senses is an act of great courage. Courage is needed because the outer defense mechanisms have to come down. We must feel safe; otherwise it’s a no-go. Can you remember a time when you were in a beautiful, safe and delicious love embrace? In this emotional safety we feel the inside and outside at the same time. We stop pretending there are two worlds…one out there and one inside.

When we are healthy, calm, cool and collected we can feel the events in the outer world tangibly in our flesh and bone, and at the same time we can respond to others more effectively.

 

Piece Three: Sacred Sensuality

 

The feel of velvet, a leaf, water… The scents of good, hot sex, skin, soil, flowers, the sights of sunrise, nakedness, nature, splashes of color and music…food… These are the things that excite our senses, and nature has all in place to feed our souls.

Beliefs affect the senses as well. What beliefs work for you as an individual and

for your lover? What does she want? Need? Not need? What turns her…or him…off? On? Each person has such a code. Each body has a map. Make a map of favorites both for yourself and your lover. Mentally extend your attention and concentrate on what she or he would love for you to do for them, with them and to them.

Everyone wants to be honored—how can we honor others? Each person is looking for validation, respect and love. A few simple acts go a long way.

The body map is only disclosed to those of us who choose to engage in mutual intimacy. Only then does the second sight take over and we naturally move into and out of each other like seas washing through, back and forth as the tide, in varied winds and volume. It’s not a battle of wills; it’s more a matter of patience and calm, together

with complete attentiveness.

Being well rested gets everything rolling for us. Once we have some cellular support functioning, our bio-magnetic and psychic powers naturally enliven. Enlivened senses heighten awareness… Sex becomes more interesting all by itself…no effort needed.

Plan a night, one for you and one for your lover. Each of these nights contains a whole lot of things you’re going to do for the other while they relax in your service.

Baths, flowers and food… walks, massages and special sexual treats. You make the list. Buy a little notebook, your sacred sexual journey. Its long cultivations that bring about our fires and waters of desire. The Yin and Yang of passion builds and builds through our consistent cultivation. Daily you and I can ‘stop and smell the roses’, really feel the water on our skin and the textures not only in nature but in the landscape of our bodies as well.

Let’s take our time with our sexing by realizing that healthy sexing comes from steady…sensing. The sensual building blocks of ecstatic, life transforming sex are available right now, right here. Make some sounds. What are you holding on to?

Release it now with sound and breath. Feel your skin, isn’t it wonderful? Let your hands become your lovers hands as you feel your own skin. Can we slow it down just for now and return to the freedom and inner nourishment naturally to our proper rhythms? Should our lives always be ‘on the go’? No, its not natural. All intelligent species play together, roll in the mud together and take cat naps. Only we are tempted by the illusion of more, more, more so much that we are having a problem in slowing down as a species. It’s like we are all stuck on overdrive. Why not step out of the mass of people going no where and design our own lives to order?

Sensual/sexual cultivation provides the root and

expression finds the bloom.

 

Piece Four: Dripping Sexuality

 

“Some people have so much sexual strength you can almost see it dripping out of every pore of their body. Let’s get juicy.” W.F.M.

In Tantra, Qigong, and in the advanced-energy medicine practices of Tibetan tummo, Zen, Yoga… you name the culture; you’ll find guidance for what to do with sexual feeling, which is the main source of bio-energy.

The attention is first coaxed down from the brain into the body. As the inner energy builds and builds from being melted within, our roots are watered; the sex center. The time necessary for our inner restoration depends on how much self-healing we may need. Once filled up we begin to overflow in pure expression.

When all else is set aside and our sacred lovemaking is all we have here and now. Only here can we throw off the chains that bind. In love we forget all else…time begins to slow and no care for the external world exists. Our garden of sexual love knows no interruption. The phones are off, doors to the world closed. Happy days are here again in each others arms.

 

 

Tantalize, tease, build up…pour in their great orgasmic substance of cum by our own attention. Its us that creates it and puts it in there for our partner. Then, much later, our pipes are cleaned out through rolling sexual, orgasmic release. Want super power?

It exists in sensuality. Throw off the outdated ideas about sensuality and sexuality,

discard the ignorant religious belief given by small people. Our sensual/sexual life is the raw power of nature living through us. Let it not yearn…let it not repress. Engage, break free, breathe with the sensual tasty bits all around you. No need to shrink back from unbounded perception because in this trust we find all that we need for life, love and ecstatic living. It is natural for us to enjoy. If we let ourselves do so compulsions vanish of their own accord. This is the way to the satisfied sexual life

The sensuality of skin is amazing. Our 6^th sense guides us through the terrain of our lover. Animals know us and each other through what they smell coming from inside the body and through the skin. How much more so should we be aware of the wonderful insights with scent. Did you know that more memories are created and stored because of scent than any other sense. Touching, smelling even licking each other in all the tenderest areas build our desire for each other. Carefully building and building. Ever aware of such great sharing that we accomplish with each other.

Life itself is sexual. There is an inter coursing in all nature. This way and that.

Submission and dominance. Mixing and caressing, powerfully moving.

Sexual T.L.C. Returns the moisture to our sexuality and begins nourishing the hormones. This is not expression this is pure reception; outside of our lovemaking. Being simply kind to each others tired groins, tired eyes and minds. Love in action on the inside. Attaining dripping sexuality is through just this kind of nourishment from ourselves to ourselves and for our lovers.

Tender touches that do not lead to foreplay and sex. Touches that soak up into our tissues restoring, repairing the frayed ends of our nerves and once again return to the nourishments abounding around us in nature. Even in a closed off room the nourishments in soil, rock and water, mountain ranges, oceans, animals…all a delicate balance that we could all learn to appreciate more and more.

 

Be Free! Be Juiced Up! Be You!

Piece Five: Women

 

“Does he realize what a pain in the ass he is, with his emotional immaturity? Guys are tough? Yeah, sure.” W.F.M.

Your erogenous zones provide us with the map for your pleasure. Let’s start with neck all around…sides, nipples, the inside of your legs. If your man doesn’t explore these areas thoroughly, show him. Don’t be shy and neither will we.

Nipples are incredibly sensitive, and a little patience, very gentle touches…some oil, will start you journeying within. The stimulation along with lips touching lips, and

other tender touches, fills up your orgasmic well.

Women, know that your orgasmic release is your beloved’s deep, heartfelt concern and his ecstatic want. It is here you are freed and embraced. In almost every culture, a woman’s full orgasm is a rite of passage. And by full orgasm, I do mean squirt. Most people still don’t know that women have a gland much like the prostate. It’s called the skene’s gland, and the fluid it produces has similar nutritious components to the fluid that sperm swim in. It even has a different passageway for release. The fluid that comes out during squirt is a woman’s greatest cum. Fact not fiction! There’s no mistaking the fluid this gland produces. If you know how to build it up either for yourself or from your lover, it’s quite obvious.

Inside your magic garden of life there is the swelling of the infamous g-spot.

Tend to it, cultivate it. Guide him. It’s grainy…and if it’s not yet awakened, you may not feel its swelling. So, we can just spend time cultivating intimacy. It’s something to cultivate for a lifetime anyway. Don’t worry if yours isn’t “awake”; with this guidance, it will be.

Cause the labia to be engorged with blood prior to intercourse by asking your man to take his time and really connect with you. Make foreplay an endless adventure. As this sacred spot swells a new experience is in the midst. Push on it and…Look out; fireworks and floods. Letting go and letting another in is scary at times; this is why we base our interactions on our own intuitive sense. Nothing can take its place. As we relax into it there may be a lot of scary chatter about. No doubt it happens to all of us and we have an opportunity. The opportunity of genuineness. As best we know how, yes, and progressively. That’s our key: simply check in with your inner/outer environment, see what’s going on and…keep going.

This is all a matter of long, constant and present cultivation. Then the release will happen naturally. To sustain the experience, understand that in “our” relationship there is only one devotion…Love. Everything else in our lives must come second. If not there is no energy to sustain the relationship. Don’t give up on men. There are some around! And you can build your own man to order through loving a genuine soul. Vice-verse is also true.

Ladies…take it slow with us. Don’t allow us to rush—okay, maybe now and then. Sex is mostly reserved for thoroughness…you know how much you drive us wild. Have more control with us that is born from our trust in you, not our fear, for we display both. Don’t use your sexual power to control us. Use it to free us. You know you have the strength and courage to hold us down…you know we need that so much. As your nourishment increases from our attention to you, you’ll want to love us more. So be patient…ever-patient, because we run on different emotional clocks. Your one hour is at

least three to us. Give us grace and love and we will rise to all occasions for you because it is you we are living for! No two people first falling in love didn’t want it to last a lifetime. You and I are so blessed in this realization because here we find clean slates of consciousness and the energy to create new relational designs. Please teach us how to love you because we know that you are good, that you are our mystic portal to feeling, to love, to pure consciousness. We may be dumb as bricks, yet we love you with our lives.

Sexually, you’ve got us wrapped around your finger because we want it bad, and right now. Sorry about that. But you can slow us down, massage us in so many ways that it turns our attitude with sex from an act to a whole play.

You can tease us and tantalize us…We cannot really fool you. Men are so easy. If you demand genuineness and offer love, man will melt in your hands like putty; any man worth his salt that is. We men will man-up through your love. Water and Fire make steam…so it is with man and woman. We are meant to be together—in Love, ya know?

Slow us down. Make that a project because we can’t do it. Yes, you heard right. We are just incapable. Yet with your help, a new kind of man will appear, all by your gift. That’s the way to go. Simply control the situation. Inspire him to wait and cultivate his juices by going back and forth from relaxation to stimulation. Deepen his storehouse. You have the power! Be devoted for your own sake, and help us extend our lovemaking time and experience.

 

Piece Six: Man

 

“Doesn’t she realize we have to face the woolly mammoth? It’s out there, big and scary, trying to eat us.”

Sexual attractiveness also comes from our own self-relationship. Loving our own selves, tending to our own experience.

Roar. We men are manly. We really are big and strong, and all of us have roars like wild lions. The Lioness roars with equal fervor. I can hear a few readers roaring with me right now. Once we guys lessen the quick ejaculations and frequency of ejaculations, our sexual prowess is automatically more constant. The gals may take a while to get used to it, yet the sex will be so much better that they’ll agree to a bit of “staying back” and not cumming externally.

Of course we can live it up from time to time, but let’s build a sound base first, shall we, and operate from there. Like a bank account…let’s have more than enough, then function with a cushion. Let’s build it up a bit. Like attracts like, so there’s no loss

in this, only gain, because your higher level of core sexuality creates them juices a- flowing for the ladies.

So, what do we do with our new found balls? Well, learn the art of internal orgasm and develop even greater sex strength. Why, for sexual power? Not exactly. Let’s start with personal health.

After recently being interviewed on the subject of male sexual vitality, by Bill Gotlieb, for an upcoming book, he asked me very straight questions about “holding it”. My direct answer was something like this:

“Moan, growl, breathe, calm yourself, fight yourself, bite, extend your rhythms, pull out a minute or two, hold back… focus on the making of Love, not the cumming, and you’ll thereby discover super-sexuality if you’re game to use that power in an honorable way.” W.F.M.

So, guys: Hands off a bit, and honor your woman by building your strength for her. This is one of the best investments known to man. Then you’ll naturally become more powerful sexually.

Is it that simple? Yes! This is the male responsibility. Save it for your beloved.

Invest in your beloved.

After a week of abstaining from orgasm, testosterone levels spike, allowing us an energetic breakthrough, which is psychologically beneficial as well.

It might seem that very frequent ejaculation is fine, and you may feel that you’re always raring to go, and do just great in the bedroom…but some extra super-

strength comes if you have times of waiting for a week and learning how to breathe the healthy feeling of sexuality throughout nooks and crannies inside.

The real key is our its quality and rate of production etc. To give a little rest to the cumming goes a long way to stabilize a male psyche as well. You’ll sleep better and digestive strength improves. For woman as well, this is true.

Guys: Build it up a while, will ya? The storage level a man has these days is less than half of just 25years ago. That’s right, testosterone (which is a good thing when healthily channeled), is at half the level. Lower concentrations of testosterone for a man significantly increase age-related diseases.

Let our strength woo her; overwhelm her into the submitted welcoming her female body longs for. Allow her to pull us in further and further. Don’t worry this journey is into the ocean of her nothingness; the source of life creation on this earth.

With Loving Sex, everything works. Without it, techniques probably won’t work at all. So, do you want super-ecstatic sex? FYI First Love Yourself, and in a matter of weeks not only will a new life manifest but sexy, horny, hot and healthy sex as well.

Why? Because we are naturally exuding the right vibe. Now, that’s an insatiable turn-on to others.

Giving each other a chance to express ourselves, no matter what’s being experienced, is a sign of good character. Discover where the person is coming from. Where are they “at”? Are you really connecting with each other? Men, in

tempering our temper, we cultivate the greatest of a virtuous combination: Gentleness and Strength. (P.S.: It drives ‘em wild.)

Men and women – techniques…Turn this chapter into a romance novel…kinda…Interview…utilize quotes of your own, like Rumi.

Before getting into all this g-spot clarity, I’d like to re-mention that for this to work, it’s best to spend some weeks really connecting with each other. Be more sure about who the other person is. Where you’re at with your connecting determines when the leap to sex occurs. There have been quick sex times for all of us, those times of “Let’s just get right to it!’ Which can be great too; however, if we wait a bit and just have fun, we can genuinely listen, receive, accept and honor our partner’s presence in our life. This primes our pumps. Mutual validation is the big button for all of us.

Guys, massage her thoroughly from head to toe, again and again. Release her tensions and relax her, more and more deeply, through simply taking the time to pour in the attention again and again.

Wooooman. Really take your time…Love him not with your body only but with your heart, mind and soul, first and foremost. This is what’s missing in our sexuality…Love. By taking the chance to love, we strengthen our insides and become more lovable. We can be whatever kind of person we like. Who would you like to be today? What kind of a personality do you feel is best for you to be right now? As our hearts and minds discover themselves, others’ opinions are simply viewed, not endlessly reviewed. After all you and I are in the flow of life.

Women, through your eyes and heart; into your magic garden, lives a doorway to soulgasmic, and orgasmic, release. And this is a release that supports you entirely.

Nature has it in place for your mind as well as for your body. To soothe and to nourish. This is the kundalini that we hear about in Yoga, that leads us to the “Shaktipat” of enlightenment—This transfer of such great energy from the universe and your body is the key to unlock your full potential. (Gay couples, please change the wording as you see fit, for love is always right…however it comes about.)

 

Ladies, through your sacred spot you have a mystic portal to healthy, holy and unknown pleasures.

 

Hold your man’s hand and guide him all around, down, and in…Show him how to touch…move his hand from time to time with yours. Tell him that it’s okay, he’s safe. Like angel wings and a sitting hen…enveloped we are we in your love. Like the “Lingham” embraced by “Yoni”…two of the most ancient and most sacred names for our genitalia. Lingham means “light wand”. And Yoni, a deeply honoring name for the vagina.

Within your magic gardens, your lover’s oily finger(s) can explore…just up behind the pubic bone, gently feel back and forth for some ridges…have him swirl around the first time(s); be very, very patient and get a general feel of the territory you’re about to traverse. A hand on her pubic bone…standing, kneeling by her side…with her deepening relaxation. With trust and stimulation you’ll feel the swelling of an area somewhere where the ridges were and/or nearby. Let it swell as you place just a little pressure on. “Back off” is a good phrase for us guys to keep in mind because we often behave like… “heat seeking missiles”…lol. Place more emphasis on the motion of taking off the pressure than of putting it on. Building…building… during many sessions, never pressing too deeply, only slightly. The purpose is to build orgasmic feeling in your lover’s body not just release it. Of course the greater the building, the greater the release. Take your time, folks; this isn’t a race.

 

Once us guys have all the right cues and moves then its our turn to guide, press…and penetrate. Back and forth we go taking the lead until we join in soulgasmic journeys.

 

If the feeling should arise, press and rock her whole pelvic area

with one hand supporting her pelvic bone. Rock her up and down…gently at first then so strongly it moves her whole body. Her sacred spot swells with cum and we release it through our touch again and again…building unto the great squirt.

Male internal cumming is as freeing for the man as woman squirts and multiple orgasm is for the woman. And without it a man remains in a depleted state. Men, you know how it happens. We get close, then stop just in time and shudder in the feeling of orgasm; but we hold off. Well, do that a number of times and watch super power develop. Simple really; it does require self-discipline, however. This can be a “maddening” process. Just keep at it brothers. Keep at it!

Then rest a while according to your libido. We have to build ourselves in cycles.

We literally have to improve the health of our nerve fiber so more energy can flow

through. This requires time and patient devotion. Ladies, you can help by your agreement and participation with the goal of your man, building a deeper store. And, wow, will you benefit. All cultures in ancient history speak of this male internal buildup and woman’s sacred release.

The art of making love washes our vision to see beyond bodies and into people.

First loving ourselves, then each other. In that order.

 

Piece Seven: Sex as Spiritual Practice

 

Sex is certainly one of the most important areas of spiritual and personal wellness.

There was a study done for over 25 years. This study included some of the most successful people in the world at the time. The results? Most successful people have a high libido. So does sex sell? Does our sexiness influence our position in the world? You betcha. So, the idea that sex is dirty and shameful is just silly. The ‘frequency’ of our sexual expression is all up to us. We have a chance to tend to one of the most important core-power aspects of our person…

 

Our Sex Sense

 

Engage life, engage yourself, and engage each other. Live, breathe freely…it’s okay. Great sexual love naturally flows from being In Love, in ourselves and each other.

Here’s the portal to permissible pleasures.

The art of making love is a different way of relating with sensuality and sexuality. Healthier, mutually fulfilling and powerful. Just a moment of recognition brings a big and fast download. Grounding us in our own spaces. Feeling peace of mind rather than thinking thoughts, Breathing steadily, deeply, freely. Connecting in our hearts with self, beloved and beyond…relaxing…together.

 

Sexual love is fed by connecting. Letting in the love to our own flesh and bones makes it possible to pour it through our lover’s body. This is the win/win of loving sexuality.

 

Love is a two way street.

 

We can learn to extend our tolerance for others’ mistakes. After all, look at us.

Are we any different? The decision to cultivate our graciousness as far as possible for a lifetime is clear. Furthermore, we have to “take it from the top” again and again. Some may not stick with us, yet what are we saying? What is our internal dialogue

commenting on about he, she, them, we?

Nothing dampens our mood and sex life like emotional blowouts. Through countless studies we now know that our emotional intelligence is far more important than our IQ in determining success in life…including business success, well, then it’s time for emotional overhauls isen’t it. We have can benefit from personal releasing time. Including that we are well on our way to juicyness. This is a careful and tentative time in world history. This is why loving sex is so important to ground us and guide us during this cataclysmic time.

 

Loving Sex: A Gourmet Sampler

 

Emotional Connecting and talking it through-Men realize that there’s a difference. Five of our words equals twenty of our beloved’s. Different communication, both necessary. Can we keep learning about each other? Yes.

Massage devotion-The power of touch is what all species do to love each other. Cuddles can come in so many forms. Think about it…take the time…plan and be spontaneous. Make your love life a number 1 priority.

Have a rose-and brush your partner with it.

Use foods creatively…different foods…again and again.

Yabyummy- This is a Yoga lovemaking technique where she sits on top and comfortably…slowly embraces. Make it a meditation. Come on, if we are in close living proximity, we may as well get to know each other!

Positions-Create a whole bunch. Buy a Kama Sutra book and Take your time to get into each. Here’s another suggested buy: The Art of Sexual Ecstasy: The Path of Sacred Sexuality for Western Lovers. By Margo Anand.

Oil and extra sheets-Grape seed for our groins and insides and sweet olive oil for the rest of our bodies.

Our beloved is the greatest thing in our lives. Make it so. Such an investment of time and energy heals our entire lives. There is not something more important to do with our time. Life here, our legacy is relational and little else!

Tantalizing, rich, timeless, sensuous loving. Now, do we deserve that in our lives?

Of course; it’s natural. This is quite a time in world history. Lots of people are waking up and smelling the roses.

You and I stand on the precipice of a new civilization. Why not be a forerunner? Why not stop complaining and get to it? Get to the job of nourishment for ourselves, for others, for environment. When we do this, life become exciting, to say the least.

Do you have a complaint, a sorry…let me hear it…tell it to someone. If there’s no one around, talk to a tree. Hey, that’s why we humans invented prayer. Can you imagine that there are other people around…Spirit people, God, Gods and Goddesses. If we start listening, we start hearing. The whole creation is speaking love and sex. Can you hear it above the din or psychobabble?

Strike out into ecstatic living, or rather, strike in. It’s just not out there, folks. It’s here in us. Only in the embrace of love, safety, peace and nourishment are we safe.

Only here can we travel within with no fear of the outside.

You and I. Well, we are worth it. We are born in a star. Did you know planet Earth came from an exploded star? We really are star-stuff. Wipe the tears, remove the blinders. You have been notified. Your love and super sex simply await. Engage the sensuality of nature and watch your blossoming. Instil the simple suggestions and watch your personal energy and sexual pleasure skyrocket.

Falling in Love, Making Love…mutual orgasm…Super deep sleep…Awaking to a new world…crisper senses…Suddenly everyone’s in a better mood. This is something that nature set in place to spark our enlightenment. This is the inner meaning as explained by Yoga, Zen etc. We have a very similar experience in real meditation.

Warmth, Will Adendum:

 

Sexy Notes:

 

Go super slow with a complimetary music and oil. Learn new creativity with slowness.

 

Oils and extra sheets are always a great thing. Grape seed oil for g-spot and sweet almond oil for massage. Put down an extra sheet and have a massage…Give one to each other now and then.

 

It’s a little vacation right there. You deserve to be loved, held and honored, as your partner does. Take off the mask and reveal your need. In love and sexual love we find our friend, confidant, counselor, doctor, nurse, massage therapist, guru and guide.

 

Cuddle time is primary. There are lots of versions of cuddle. Play time, wresting, tender touches and kisses, long walks holding hands.

 

Choose to make this commitment together, for yourself, for each other. This will change your lives, all in a matter of months. I mean really, change it. It’s the inside stuff of spiritual rebirth. The love cultivates, the energy generates.

May your days of experiencing the art of loving in all expression…be endlessly self renewing from depth to height and all around.

 

Awakening inner potentials through sexual love is nature’s way of reminding the individual of the infinite.

 

May your journey be sweet and thorough.

 

Warmth, Will